This article was written by and is the property of Mistress Chianti
I was reading through a BDSM forum last night and the topic was whether or not subspace intereferes or bores the Dominant. My thoughts.
I Am a sensual sadist. Much of my pleasure comes from the evidence that the bottom/submissive/slave is experiencing and dealing with whatever pain I have decided to inflict. When the bottom drops into subspace too quickly - I will pull them out, rather than having them “float” off. If and when I decide to permit subspace to occur – it will be at my decretion (as long as the bottom is capable of such an experience) – not the bottoms.
Reward?
My thoughts…
The ultimate goal of a slave is to give – anything in which to make my life enjoyable, pleasant, joyous.
When a bottom/submissive/slave drops into subspace, especially those who obtain it rather quickly – is it….
escape?
selfish on the bottoms part?
greedy on the bottoms part?
Quite frankly, a submissive who drop off into subspace with a mere touch of a flogger, can bore me (and I do not like being bored within a scene). They fly away to their lala land and then I am simply left behind, holding and delivering the whip (or whatever) to “service” their “bottomly wants” of “subspace?”
As usual, within our lifestyle - there are no right or wrong answers to this topic. Simply a few comments from this Mistress’s perspectives.
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