Of course I’m a Dominant Mistress!  I am also sensual and sadistic, although some may find that to be an oxymoron.  But some days, especially when I am in a sensual mood, I become torn between a teasing kiss and the vampire bite.

Not that I have ever thought of myself as a vampire nor do I ever intend to – but the ability to mind fuck one into submitting to a life draining experience such as the vampire bite – simply makes me fucking hot!

I have always had a fascination with blood play and recall a story I wrote nearly 15 years ago upon where the submission of one was so grand and dedicated that the slave went willingly to an eternal sleep, while her blood was slowly consumed.  I know – rather dark, isn’t it?  But then, we all have our dark sides, don’t we?

I do so love this picture I am sharing with you, the lady in the picture is Lustful Cherokee.  A rather sweet and innocent little play thing.  And yet, she too has her dark fantasies and twisted desires.  And it may very well be her focus on her own selfishness, that permits her to submit to this Dominant Mistress, Mistress Chianti, and her vampire bite.

I would love to hear from those of you with dark fantasies.  Drop me an email soon or better yet – call me and let’s talk about them!

Once again, my fetish for needles takes me to a new technique!!  A friend of mine attended SELF this year and spoke about how he slid needles under the cuticles of his slave’s fingers and toes, as well as the webbing of said digits.

I love needle play.  I love my topspace when I have a willing victim who will take as many needles as I can stick into them.  I wanted to see, learn and feel about this cuticle needle technique (of course I want to know how it feels – that way I really know what you may process internally as I slide them up under your fingernails!!)  So here is a pic of my right hand experiencing what I have now learned!!!

Are you ready to get poked?

Finally had an opportunity for some much needed R&R this past weekend. Joined some very close friends up in eastern North Carolina for a little fun in the sun, shopping and doing what it is we do (or better known as WIIWD).

Shortly after arriving around noon on Saturday, I realized that I had no cell service, there was no internet service, no television – just peace and quiet. Without all the technological amenities I am accustomed to, I decided to just put on my bathing suit and head to the pool. A quick dip in the water felt wonderful and the next couple of hours was simply spent between laying in the sun and immersing myself in the cool water. Around 4pm, I returned to the apartment – showered, dressed and went to dinner with friends. When we walked into the restaurant, I immediately made a comment about a large wooden sign that had the name CHIANTI on it and how it would look better hanging in my dungeon! Dined on delicious angel hair pasta tossed with sun dried tomatoes, fresh basil and olive oil.

Arrived back at the apartment around 8 and chatted with friends until about 10. That is when the atmosphere took on a small energetic change. The lights were low, Miles Davis was playing on the stereo, the single tail whip came out, a female submissive stripped to her lovely flesh and guided to one of the bare walls. Her hands were gently placed about her head, her legs spread and not one person spoke a word. Hands danced over her body in time to the music, mesmerizing her mind to a higher plane, guiding her towards focusing on what was to come. The next track of the album started, and a hand slid into her hair, forcing her head forward to rest against the supporting wall and she was left alone, already floating in her own euphoria.

From a few feet back, the single tail started to wisp through the air, gauging the required distance to land it’s first mark upon her smooth, exposed skin. Slowly creeping closer, ever so lightly, until her hair started dancing under the tip and the single tail gently walked down her back, flicking her with butterfly kisses. She quietly moaned, not expecting this gentleness and started to sway with the music, and the single tail kept the gently beat. Coaxing her deeper into sublime.

For 45 minutes, she danced like a puppet to that single tail, the strokes growing in intensity, the energy rising to electrifying proportions – it was truly an awesome evening! Around midnight, we all headed to bed – although no one slept much Saturday night!!!

Sunday was spent group shopping at several local stores, then a few more hours in the sun by the pool and a sad farewell as the weekend came to a close and I headed back to South Carolina.

Well, I had a first and must say – I was quite amused! A submissive phone me asking if I could humiliate him – which in my sultry, seductive manner immediately started weaving my web around him.

2 Minutes into the call – he is breaking from the “scene” saying “Ma’m? Ma’m? Excuse me, Ma’m?”
“Yes?” I reply.
“I am so sorry, but this is not going to work. I’m sure you really nice and all, but you sound so much like my ex-wife my dick is to afraid to get hard. I think I would like to call someone else.”
I start chuckling, he nervously chuckles and we kindly say goodbye to each other.

LOL – I have made dicks wilt before, but this was just to funny!

I was playing around with a new flash program and dug up some pictures covering the past couple of years and through it all together and thought I would share them. Most you’ve probably seen around, some I’ve never shown – so enjoy. Oh yes, the music is “I’m Yours” by Jason Mraz, damn I love that song and any of you that have had the opportunity to spend personal time with me, Mistress Chianti – know my affection towards this song~!

Oh, and in testing this (this is a .swf file versus a .flv file for all the techies) I notice especially in FireFox it takes a moment to load or start – so hang in there if it doesn’t play immediately, it will. Don’t forget to leave your comments~!!!!

 

 Flash Content: Play Now | Play in Popup

Seems like I have been going non-stop since mid-March, and all play has come around to bite Mistress in the ass!  Fortunately, there are some very sweet submissives that make sure I am taken care of and I want them to know I do appreciate them, their dedication, and their thoughtfulness.  I still haven’t found out which one left me the chicken soup in my frig last night (yes, several have earned keys to my door), but that was without a doubt one of the more thoughtful gifts I have received.

I thought you might enjoy a sneak peek of a recent set of pics I did with good girl wendy.  You can see more of her (and me) on her Niteflirt account.  She is brand new and taking calls, although she has been instructed not to give away any of my secrets!!

David and I did three different tag team sessions recently on some willing subs.  Absolutely wonderful!  Lots of good energy shared.  Although, I did get carried away at one point and started laying into some ass with my bare hand which resulted in an actual bruise, at the base of my palm, on my right hand.  I’ve got to remember to stick to my implements (toys) of pain and torture cuz bruises are for the bottoms, not the tops!

Was speaking with a local Mistress that does scrotum stapling and she has agreed to show me the technique.  I am quite excited.  Now if I can get that little cbt slut from Greenville here to be the demo dolly, I will learn how to properly wrap a pig in a blanket!!  BTW, this is done with sterile, surgical staples – so don’t go grabbing your damn desk stapler!  I will keep you posted on how and when this comes to pass.

What a week this has been!

My private play space has had a major overhaul, and the lacing boards are installed.  I am truly excited!! I really want to thank “my guys” for all their help! Not only for the two new pieces of dungeon furniture, but for all the muscle and back breaking moving that has gone on!  It would not have happened without the two of you!!  By the way, if you are interested in experiencing a live session with me, here’s the place to start….   Live Session Information

The pink rope I ordered never arrived, and after contacting the company – realized I had left the order in an “open” status, so very much to my disappointment.  Thus my pink rope will be at least another week or so before coming arriving.

Paella

Saturday is going to be a day of festivities around here.  Sadistic Bastard, along with his new sweet friend will be joining us for paella.  For those of you not familiar with paella (prounounced pä-l, pä-lyä, -yä), it is a saffron-flavored Spanish dish made with varying combinations of rice, vegetables, meat, chicken, and seafood which of couse, finds its origin from  Spain, the country where I was born.  One does not just make paella – one throws a paella party!!!  The dish itself is an event to be celebrated and enjoyed amongst friends!

I had an absolute wonderful lunch with kathipantyslave on Tuesday afternoon.  We met at Olive Garden for a little vino and pasta and a whole lot of great conversation.  Thank you kathi!  And thank you for the beautiful gift – you already know how much I like it!

My birthday is coming up next Saturday, February 27 – who is going to volunteer to take all my birthday swats?  (Be careful before raising those hands – those swats are starting to add up!!!)  And yes, I do have a giftlist available.  You can find it HERE!

Alright now – give me a call this afternoon and say hello!

Hello boyz.

It has been a wild and crazy ride this past week.  My dear friend, Mistress Sonya, came for a visit here in beautiful South Carolina – and we have gone non-stop!  Between dining out, attending lifestyle BDSM munches, 2 days of tag team sessions, one day spent doing nothing but buying many, many SHOES, a day of recouping from clubbing, 2 days spent with a sweet little fem submissive who got her ass beat GOOD – and a day doing a photo shoot – I am sad to say Mistress Sonya finally had to bid South Carolina farewel and start her return home trip today.

BUT – she will be back the week of March 23 and we will again be teaming up and extending a few pro sessions again.  So if you weren’t able to schedule this go around – make sure to get your reservations in early for next month.

I want to send out a personal thank you to lloyd for funding the Shoe shopping day!!!   Nothing can put a smile on a Mistress’s face like a shopping excursion! Alright – we both have our own versions of shoe fetish.

Oh, and I am still grimacing over a few bruises I have……   now where the hell did those come from?  Oh yeah – I remember…  when two Bi FemDoms romp in the bed – bruises abound on both!!!    ROFL    What a freaking, awesome, mindblowing, out of control night that was!!!!!!!!!!!

That just about wraps up my past week.  I have put two pictures up of Mistress Sonya so you boyz will have an idea of who she is – and I hope… you like the new picture I have thrown up of myself.  It was taken yesterday. I will be adding this one and more to the gallery.

My Dear Friend……    Mistress Sonya

I realize it has been a while since I have posted anything to my blog.  The fact is that on the morning of January 1, I got a tearful call from David, that his Mistress – and my very dear friend, Miss Suzanne - had passed away only hours before.  I knew, that until I wrote this one post – I would not be able to write anything.  It’s been 10 days, and the time has come.

Miss Suzanne was a tremendous influence in my life.  It was through her, I learned that being a Mistress did not have to be about the biggest toy bag or the most outlandish leather costume.  It was not about barking orders or strutting arrogance.  Miss Suzanne was a Mistress of class and total femininity, and being in total control of herself.  She was indeed a beautiful woman.  And through knowing her, and being her friend – I grew to know myself. 

Her avatar was her hats.  Always a lady and always arriving in the most stylish hats. I have to chuckle, because maybe everyone did not know her personally – but if you were to go to an event – most everyone would know about the one Mistress who always wore hats.  Personally – I think it was pure jealousy.  lol.

I am only writing a small amount, but in my head are over a decade of memories racing – and I don’t write any of this really – for any of you…  it was just something I needed to do, for myself.

She was diagnosed with a serious illness in the fall of 2008, and she requested that no one know.  Three months later – my friend is gone.

David, you are not alone…  just as Miss Suzanne swore a lifetime promise to us, we swear that lifelong promise to you.  Never hesitate to the sincerety of that promise.  She wouldn’t have.

Sleep in peace, Miss Suzanne.  You will be missed.

Forced Fem?  I don’t think so!

I’m sure these next several days are going to go by rather quickly – so I wanted to make sure to wish each and every one of you a very happy and safe holiday!!  And you boys that know me – know I mean that from my heart!

I am looking forward to many new and exciting changes this coming year – and of course, as they unfold, I will be sharing them with you. 

Now play nicely, and always play safe!

Jennifer – I did get your email, and I am extremely proud of you!!  You really have no idea what it means to me that you keep me in the loop in regard to your successful progress.  Just keep it up!!! hehehehe