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Video: BDSM Documentary

Posted by Mistress Chianti

Susan For Now

 

This is a 10 minute excerpt from the documentary Susan for Now, which takes the viewer on a journey of discovery through what most people know only vaguely as a mysterious and taboo subculture: the world of sadomasochism.

 

It is so good to see a positive statement instead of the negatives usually seen in film and the papers.

 

More information can be found here at Audience without a box http://audience.withoutabox.com/films/susanfornow

 



It’s a billboard.
It’s a flagpole.
No – It’s Cock-a-mania!!!!

 

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Although I do not condone the use of safety pins for temporary needle play – it was the thought and effort, which I admired!

 

I love needle play and personally, in my private sessions – I only use medical issued, sterile, one time use needles. This slut already had a mild tongue lashing for his use of a safety pin – but how could I not smile at such a thoughtful gift.

 

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The reality is that many of you are probably thinking “no way in hell”, but let me assure you that if you are under the guidance of an experienced Dominant, the rush of endorphins is worth every minute of your self imposed fear.

 

Now that is not to say, that we as Dominants don’t get our own rush of adrenaline out of a good needle scene, there is a lovely influx of power when you are literally sticking needles through someone’s flesh, and I for one – have my own fetish of not only doing the sticking – but for being STUCK.

 

And yes – I do have some marvelous pictures of myself adorned in needles. I have had as many as over 100 temporary piercings at one time. And if I get enough show of hands (interest) I will be happy to post a picture or two of me, Mistress Chianti, as a pincushion!

 



I get quite a few questions regarding how and/or why I am “Sensually Sadistic”? For me, it’s all about the misguided tease. The light touch, the warm breath, the alluring perfume and watching the growing, embedded possibility within the submissive before me - that I might even consider their cock for my own self gratification!

 

I feast upon watching my submissives guard lower, knowing their minds opening up for me to crawl inside and take possession of them. Bending over their bound, naked bodies and gently lifting their cocks to that one spot before my lips, where the heat of my breath causes their pre-cum to drizzle forth.

 

At that moment - they become mine. Poor baby, all bound and helpless - tonight I feel like an artist, and you dear - will be my canvas. It is time for me to teach them about true submission.

 

I lift my knife and bring it to their lips, forcing them to kiss the first implement to be used in their training.

 

Sensually Sadistic….. Mistress Chianti!



Just wow!

Have made the move to South Carolina, and I beleive I am just now recouping from the past 4 weeks of packing/transporting/unpacking! URGH!

With that said, it is nice to be part of civilization again. Although I absolutely love the tranquil & seclusive life the bluegrass state had to offer, having to travel 30 minutes (one way) for a loaf of bread was simply a bit much.

The past two weeks, I have been like a kid in a candy store in my new surroundings - with all the resturants, strip malls, stores, traffic lights, people and stuff and stuff and stuff - to do!!

There are blues festivals, jazz festivals, wine tastings in the park, comedy clubs, niteclubs, dancing and on and on. Life is good!

I do hope you have had a chance to visit my site and you are listening to my “Sexy Friday” installements. Of course - all of that can be found at www.mistresschianti.com

Hmmmm…. shoes….. I think I should do some shoe shopping……. Stopped by a small store yesterday and saw this delicious pair of red heels. I was beginning to drool over them, when in my periphal vision, this awesome pair of 4″ black heels caught my eye. Open toe with black rhinestones encircling the ankle straps. Yes, is great to be back in the city!!!!!!!!



(A FREE MP3 FOR YOU)
**WARNING**
The subject matter contained within the MP3 is of adult nature covering a wide range
of Consensual BDSM activity. If you are offended by such content - DON’T LISTEN!!


Mistress Chianti’s  

PERFECT Description of FOOT
WORSHIP 

Foot Worship
: Pure unadulterated foot worship. I relax
whilst you massage, kiss, caress My beautiful feet and toes. I love to
crush fruit with My feet and have My slave lick off all the juice. Breath in the
wonderful scent of skin as you lie beneath Me.  

Heel Worship:
  Suck
My shoes. Lick it, worship it, suck it. Feel it dig into your flesh. Lick My
shoes with your eager mouth and tongue. Feel true submission as you take your
place beneath My heels. 

Toe Sucking:
  All
those perfect toes to choose from! You will be in heaven as I slide My toes into
your open, waiting mouth. I like to fuck a willing mouth with My elegant toes -
suck harder slave! That’s it, take My toes all the way in. Feel them filling up
your mouth as your tongue caresses each delicate toe. 

Kicking:
  Submit to the
cruelty of My feet, shoes. So, you want to experience a God’s kicks? Are you
brave enough slave?! Feel the divine pain that My feet will inflict as I
repeatedly kick at your male flesh. Kicking your stomach, balls, face, back,
ass, and legs. Nowhere on your body is safe from My aim. you will serve as My
target and take everything I’m going to give you. Just how mean, nasty and
brutal can a God be? Hear Me laugh at your pain and suffering as I kick
your with My shoes, or bare feet. Beg for mercy? You can try. 

Smothering
  Take your
position beneath My feet as I place them over your mouth and nose. you cannot
take a breath without My permission and without inhaling the delicious scent of
My feet. Surrender to the power of My soles as they enclose around your face
leaving you helpless and at My mercy.  

Trampling
  Be crushed
under My feet and shoes. Be My doormat whilst I use you to wipe the dirt from My
shoes. Hell for you. Heaven for Me. And after all, it is all about My pleasure.
Feel the painful side as My shoe burn into your skin, or feel the flesh of My
soles on your flesh as My weight bares down onto your body. I will trample
you into deep submission.  

Boot Worship
  Submit
to My boots encasing my legs. Run your fingers along the length of them, lick
from heel to soul and draw your lips and tongue along the length of My leather
boots. Take the pointed toe in your mouth and suck hard. When you worship My
boots you will do it properly!  

And those worthy sluts of mine would surely be treated with other
pleasures which a slave desires from his Mistress, so as to attain the
climax of all pleasures !!!



Wine (Chianti of course), candles, smooth jazz in the background
and a sweet little slut to tend to my needs.

If you haven’t visited my website - not sure what your waiting for !!!!
If you haven’t taken the time to speak to my LIVE - you have no idea what you’re missing out on!!!


And for those of you who REALLY need the
visual - I am now granting CAM sessions. Write me to set up an appointment.


Safer Cruising and What To Do If Arrested

Posted by Mistress Chianti
In Lifestyle Thoughts
26Jun 07

This helpful information was taken from the Lambda Legal website. It is also published in Spanish.

While this information is directed at cruisers from United States, the information would be helpful in most other countries.If you cruise in parks, bathrooms or other spaces open to public view, trust your instincts, be aware of your surroundings — and know your rights. While organizations like Lambda Legal and other groups are fighting against the ways police target men who have sex with men, having sex where others might see you and take offense can subject you to arrest, publicity and other serious consequences. If you feel unsafe, you should leave.

SAFER CRUISING

Always carry identification in case you get hurt or arrested.
Providing your ID (driver’s license, green card, passport) may decrease your chances of spending time in jail, especially if you don’t have a criminal record. If the police stop you, they may instead give you a summons (which tells you the charge and when to appear in court) and let you go.

Remember cops may be “cruising” too.

Be aware that undercover cops may be “cruising” to arrest you. A cop doesn’t have to tell you he’s a cop, even if you ask. If you’re cruising for sex and an undercover cop hits on you, what you do can still be a crime. Don’t count on proving the cop “entrapped” you (which is difficult). Talk to your lawyer if you think you were set up.

Make sure that anyone you have sex with is over the age of consent.

Having sex with a minor is a serious crime with heavy punishment.

Know the laws around same-sex activity.

It changes with different ages and what ever country you happen to be in.

Understand that many laws could be used against you.

Thanks to a Lambda Legal U.S. Supreme Court win, all laws that banned consensual sex by adults in private, including oral and anal sex, have been struck down. But other laws, like those against sex where you might be seen by others, adultery and prostitution laws, or laws against criminal transmission of HIV - might still be used against you.

Be careful.

Protect yourself and others against the risk of HIV and other diseases. Be aware of your surroundings and the possibility of being beaten or robbed.If you cruise on-line let someone know your plans.Tell them where you’re going, the person you are meeting, and when you expect to be back - or write a note on your computer with this information.

IF YOU’RE ARRESTED

Stay calm. Provide identification but don’t answer any questions without a lawyer.
Anything
you say can be used against you.
Try to remember the details surrounding the arrest, including:

  • everything you or the officers said or did before, during and after the
  • arrest
  • the names, badge numbers and descriptions of any officers who were present
  • the details of the physical space, including where you and the officers were
  • the names and descriptions of anyone else who was present

Ask to talk to a lawyer

Don’t make any decisions without talking to a lawyer first. The biggest mistakes you can make are panicking, trying to get it over with quickly by “confessing”, trying to talk your way out of the problem, or trying to deal with the police on your own. If you are not a U.S. citizen, you should talk to a lawyer as soon as possible.

A conviction or plea agreement may affect your chances of later becoming a citizen, or put you at risk for deportation. If you can’t afford a lawyer, you may be entitled to a public defender free of charge. Ask to have one appointed before you make any statements to the police or in court - it’s your right.

Find a good lawyer if you don’t already have one.

Your lawyer should be a criminal defense attorney, who understands the law and the courts where the arrest occurred.

Write everything down.

Write down all the details as soon as possible, and share them only with your attorney. Ask your attorney who else it is safe to talk to in confidence.

Know your legal options

Make sure you understand the charges and discuss all the possible outcomes with your lawyer, including the consequences of any plea or conviction. These could include:

  • a fine
  • jail time
  • forfeiting property
  • having to register as a “sex offender”
  • effects on your military or immigration status
  • consequences for your employment, licensing or child custody

Tell your lawyer about any confidential circumstances.

Be sure to tell your lawyer whether you have a relationship with anyone who you don’t want to find out about your arrest.

Ask your lawyer questions, including:

  • Is it possible to get the charges dismissed because of conduct by the police?
  • Will I have a criminal record? Are there programs to avoid one?
  • Could I get my record cleared at some point?
  • Will the record be sealed?
  • Do I need to take time off from work to go to court?

Get support.

It’s okay to use anonymous hotlines to ask questions, and talk about your experience. In United States, contact Lambda Legal and your local legal or anti-violence group for help and information on finding an attorney.



You sluts and your need for pictures!!!

This one is just cuz some of you have sent me email - questioning my authenticity!!

LOL - Babycakes - I am as real as they get!!

Wanna see more?

Visit my Visualizing Mistress Chianti page!!

Or better yet - call me and say hello.

I won’t bite - MUCH.

I enjoy phone and cam sessions “almost” as much as my R/T sessions.


Whose Pleasure?

Posted by Mistress Chianti

Anal worship, pussy worship or even a back massage can be an unrewarding, unmemorable experience for ME, when it is clear that the slut is totally self indulgent or won’t leave ME alone about it.

Hell, even orgasms can get old when a slut won’t shut up about it and just wants to keep giving them.

Being in the honor of MY presence, is about MY pleasure, on MY terms.

So you’ve stated - you get off on anal worship or pussy worship or foot worship, but you don’t let it go, do you?  As a matter of fact, you make it so clear that it shows me, Mistress Chianti, you have a one-track mind and you think it’s all about you.

I have sessioned with sluts that were like this with pussy worship.  They could not understand why on earth I would not be over the moon to be with a guy that had a one-track-pussy-mind. The truth is, it was so much about “him” all the time that he made it one sided – his side.  If I were not in the mood to have him go down on me, he’d pout and be in a bad mood. I mean come on, seriously, how selfish is that?

I will also add, the submissive male who has been the most “focused (for his own benefit)” on an act of worship, whether it be foot massages or oral service, is usually not as good as he thinks he is.

Those that submit for my pleasure, even when precise instructions are needed – are worth their weight in gold!!!  


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