Without doubt, one item that is central in the FemDom/malesub active play - is the male sex organ. Those hard cocks, soft cocks, little dicks and bull cocks, those low hanging balls or shriveled up nut sacs - all opens a world of possibilities for fun play, psychological as well as physical and usually both.
There’s an old saying, “When you have him by his balls, his heart and mind will follow.” Well, nothing is more true in an erotic power exchange context
There is a widely spread legend that not only the penis erects, but that the male testicles (balls) will become heavier as they “fill” with semen. That is not true, at least not in the literal sense of the word. However, to the man himself it often indeed feels like that. That is a result of the effects of skin stretching. Skin covers all parts of the male genitals. The more this skin is stretched the more sensitive it becomes, as nerve endings are forced closer to the surface; thus the skin is more sensitive on an erect penis than on a flaccid one. The skin of the scrotal sac is thicker and is capable of great stretching and becomes even more sensitive when stretched. That is when the man becomes aware of the weight of his balls, hence they suddenly feel heavier.
The skin covering the head of the cock is very thin, tightly attached to the underlying tissues, and is extremely sensitive. It is important to be aware of the differences in sensitivity between a flaccid and an erect penis. Almost every action during active play - and of course the “things” happening in the mind - will cause the penis to swell and become increasingly sensitive.
Hence what may be not painful in the beginning may become very painful (or intense) as play progresses.
Hence, when it comes to CBT, the trick is to downgrade your impulses instead of upgrading.
The penis will “upgrade” whatever it is you are doing all by itself. The experienced FemDom will be looking for exactly that - let the penis (and the mind) do the work for you.
It’s a billboard.
It’s a flagpole.
No – It’s Cock-a-mania!!!!
Although I do not condone the use of safety pins for temporary needle play – it was the thought and effort, which I admired!
I love needle play and personally, in my private sessions – I only use medical issued, sterile, one time use needles. This slut already had a mild tongue lashing for his use of a safety pin – but how could I not smile at such a thoughtful gift.
The reality is that many of you are probably thinking “no way in hell”, but let me assure you that if you are under the guidance of an experienced Dominant, the rush of endorphins is worth every minute of your self imposed fear.
Now that is not to say, that we as Dominants don’t get our own rush of adrenaline out of a good needle scene, there is a lovely influx of power when you are literally sticking needles through someone’s flesh, and I for one – have my own fetish of not only doing the sticking – but for being STUCK.
And yes – I do have some marvelous pictures of myself adorned in needles. I have had as many as over 100 temporary piercings at one time. And if I get enough show of hands (interest) I will be happy to post a picture or two of me, Mistress Chianti, as a pincushion!
A few weeks back, I extended a little challenge to you boyz.
Don’t you just love a challenge?
Clothes pins, clothes pins, clothes pins.You would be amazed at how many of these little buggers you can get on a penis and a set of testis. One thing to note is that the less skin you capture within the clothespins, the more painful it is going to be. Larger amounts of skin in the clamps will be, in turn, less painful. Also, clothespins hurt much worse coming off than they do going on, and the longer you leave them on, the more severe the pain will be when you take them off.
I am challenging all male submissves who thoroughly enjoy (or detest - hehehe) CBT to fill those testi sacs and dicks with clothespins. The more the merrier.
Take a picture where every clothespin can be accounted for (include the number attached in your email - cuz I will only count what I can see) — and send it to me for posting on my Clothespin CBT Contest via my website.
If you don’t know my website or where to send the entry - write me here - I’ll answer all info seekers. This challenge will close on Monday, April 14, 12 Noon, Eastern Standard TIme !
Well, looks like buddyz takes home the winning sore cock & balls!!
His tortured member and entry letter follows…
Mistress Chianti,
Thanks for the opportunity to compete in this challenge. I was able to attach 43 clothes pins and I hope you can see them all in this picture.
When it comes to BDSM and puppy play, sometimes you just gotta say - “ahhhh!!” Which is what a few of you will murmer when glancing at the cutie below.
Over the next few days though - I will be posting some pics of how this adorable puppy, is very much into S&M, and all out of his devotion and commitment to his Mistress - Mistress Chianti.
Then I bet a few of you will be murmering - arghhhhhhhhhh!
I may need someone to “puppy-sit” for me sometime… any volunteers? LOL
I just love it when you boys share your experiences with me!!
Dear Mistress Chianti,
Thank you for considering me and I will not be a stranger at all and would love to wait until mid March if you would consider me at that time or sooner…I would love to hear more specifics about how you enjoy humiliating a sub thru CBT….
I wanted to share an experience I had that I crave will happen again…. I was told by the Domme to be standing at a storefront at a specific time…. I was waiting when I felt her come up behind me, reach her hand to cover my eyes and whisper walk forward into the van and do not look back, as I stepped in, I was blindfolded. The Mistress got in behind and told me to undress while blindfolded. She then drove me to a remote location where she took me out of the van, I knew I was outside but no idea where, she walked me into what I though were woods by the way the ground felt…then I was tightly tied spread eagle between 2 trees…here I am naked outside not knowing who or where I was…. She whispered in my ear, you are going to experience something you have never had and will crave it again…. she was right.
I realized there was someone else there, it was a lady who was a Domme but no idea who, I was then told she is here to learn CBT and I am the guinea pig that she is going to learn on…. the 2 of them proceed to subject the cock and balls to all sorts of torture, the Domme I knew would show the other Domme how to do certain things then she would try them…. it included clothes pins, stretching with hands…. spanking and paddling the cock and balls. Weights were attached…at one point they decided they wanted to see how far they could stretch the cock, I heard them discussing measuring it, then they attached something and started pulling the apparatus that really stretched the cock, I have no idea what it was and not felt pain like that in a while…they laughed and giggled all the time at my groans and pleads to go slowly…. they knew the cock and balls were getting sore and then said they are going to play a little game and I will not be untied until I cum twice for them and it will be painful, they decided they were going to guess how far they could cause the cock to cum, they took of the blind fold and made marks in the ground how far they thought the cum would shoot…they took turns rigorously masturbating the cock like they were milking a cow….the cock came and the first Mistress was right with her guess so she won, because she won, she told the other Mistress she owned the cock and was going to put it thru more pain, she took the semi hard shaft and started masturbating it, using the cum for lubrication …..I have never felt so much pain, my cock was so sensitive and had just cum, the last thing I wanted was anyone touching it, let alone masturbating it like she was milking a cow…. I was really nervous because she said she was not stopping until it came again and it was painful having this done to me…after a while it started to get hard again and the pain was reduced a little but it was not ready to cum, the 2 women then took turns for about 30 minutes masturbating my cock…they never stopped and were getting mad now, they finally forced it to cum and the took the cum in one hand and told me they were mad it took this long and told me to open my mouth, she then poured the cum in my mouth and closed my mouth then rubbed my throat so I was forced to swallow my own cum….
Finally, she untied me and took me back to where she picked me up…still naked, she told me to get dressed once we arrived and she let me out.
I get quite a few questions regarding how and/or why I am “Sensually Sadistic”? For me, it’s all about the misguided tease. The light touch, the warm breath, the alluring perfume and watching the growing, embedded possibility within the submissive before me - that I might even consider their cock for my own self gratification!
I feast upon watching my submissives guard lower, knowing their minds opening up for me to crawl inside and take possession of them. Bending over their bound, naked bodies and gently lifting their cocks to that one spot before my lips, where the heat of my breath causes their pre-cum to drizzle forth.
At that moment - they become mine. Poor baby, all bound and helpless - tonight I feel like an artist, and you dear - will be my canvas. It is time for me to teach them about true submission.
I lift my knife and bring it to their lips, forcing them to kiss the first implement to be used in their training.
“You ask… I warn…
You plead… I warn…
You beg… I smile…
You open the door to a fantasy…
And quickly learn
I am the gateway to reality!!!!"
…Mistress Chianti
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Dear Mistress Chianti,
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