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Live Sessions with Mistress Chianti

Posted by Mistress Chianti
In CBT, Feminization, Foot Worship
10Feb 11

Have you ever considered what it might be like to engage in a live session with me, Mistress Chianti?  Of course you have!

 

Mature & Sensual Sadist located in in the Charlotte area. Beautiful private & spacious play space. Specialties involve CBT, Corporal Punishment, Feminization, and that’s just to get the ball rolling. Learn more about me and arranging an in person consultation by visiting Secrets In Leather.

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Self Inflicted CBT

Posted by Mistress Chianti
In CBT
9Feb 11

As much as I would enjoy having you visit for a Live Session of CBT for my creative and sadistic pleasure, for many of you, a Live Session in my dungeon is simply not an option. Now, one of the questions I get most often through my phone consultations on NiteFlirt and Beg4Mistress are request for ideas on inflicting CBT on one’s self.  So I thought I would share a few ideas, and of course – these ideas will come in handy when you do call me for a phone session!

 

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More than likely, you have items all around your home that can be used.  Shoestrings, duct tape, minty toothpaste, bengay, spatulas, chopsticks, rubber bands, velcro, 2-liter soda bottle, tacklebox sinkers, toolbox clamps, clothespins, toothbrush, toothpicks, and so on and so on.  Think outside the box and get creative!

 

Now let’s look at what we can do with these items.

 

  • SHOESTRINGS (pretty obvious):  tie those ball nuggets up!
  • DUCT TAPE:  Take a small piece about 4″ and cut it lengthwise to make 2 pieces.  Run each piece on either side of the scrotum, starting on the lower base of the cock shaft and then down.  Then rip it off nice and fast!
  • MINTY TOOTHPASTE:  Squeeze some of this into your urethra while using the shoestrings and duct tape.
  • BENGAY:  Trust me, use it as stroking lube!
  • SPATULA:  The better to smack those balls with.
  • CHOPSTICKS/RUBBER BANDS:  Place the chopsticks on either side of your scrotum, then add the rubberbands to each side, at the very ends.  Once secure, slowly start rolling the rubberbands closer towards the center.
  • SODA BOTTLE(S):  Leave enough of the shoestring (tied around the base of your nuts) to tie around the neck of the bottle.  Dangle that between your legs while you run the sweeper!
  • TOOTHPICKS:  Prop them between your nuts and inner thighs.

 

So there are a few ideas and I hope you test a few of them out for yourself.  Of course, you can always call me and let me enjoy your torture!


Black Leather Boots and CBT

Posted by Mistress Chianti
In CBT
8Mar 10

One aspect of CBT that I am learning to enjoy more and more, is the art of ballbusting. The problem herein is the lack of consensual participants. So last week, when I had a virile young buck in for a heavy CBT session, I brought up what I had planned, after all, he was the one who insisted in the initial interview process that he was indeed a masochist. So I donned my black leather boots and turned up my sadistic side.

 

Mistress Chianti, Leather boots and ballbusting

 

I can usually read my bottoms pretty well, and knew he was a bit nervous standing there with his legs spread and his hands tied behind his back, attached to the metal ring on his collar. I stood in front of him and placed my hands on his shoulders, ordering his eyes to lock with mine. As I lined myself up, I smirked as those locked eyes slowly closed, he knew it was coming. There he was, standing in front of me naked while I was fully clothed, and I had attacked his most vulnerable area. I brought my knee up hard into his balls. The impact caused him to double over in pain.

 

It was exciting for me, and humiliating for him. I reached down between his legs and squeezed his nuts hard, ordering him to stand back up, the session had only begun.

 

Once more, I placed my hands on his shoulders, only this time he knew what was coming. He flinched in despair when I lightly brought my knee up and brushed it gently against his balls in alignment. I laughed at his anticipation and brought my knee up a second time hard, delivering a blow to his sweet spot. He yelled like some type of wild animal as he doubled over and fell to the floor.

 

He layed there for a minute or two, curled up with his knees to his chest and I knew he had never experienced such intense pain as that, in such an accepting manner. But then he rolled over, and my laughter grew louder as I saw his throbbing hardon. What a slut!

 

Then he whispered, “More please”

 

I helped him to his feet, tapped his legs apart and with a gleam in my eye, drove my knee again into his nuts. Only this time, harder than last. He again wound up curled into a ball on the floor, moaning and rolling back and forth.

 

Ah yes, nothing like a good CBT ball busting session between a masochist and a sadistic Mistress!


You Can Call Me Direct….

Posted by Mistress Chianti

Visit me here and give me a call – No Registration Required http://www.worshipmistress.com

Hypnotic, Erotic, Fetish, BDSM – Mistress Chianti’s Way~


Video: Meet Mistress Chianti

Posted by Mistress Chianti
In "Video", CBT, Feminization
4Mar 09

Come On – Cum “Meet Mistress Chianti”

 

Hey – I finally made a video!!

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Mz Chianti’s Personalized Ball Crushers

Posted by Mistress Chianti
In CBT, Toy Shop
29Jan 09

Now how sweet is this?

 

I have been working closely with two very fine craftsmen who are starting to assist me with a few toy designs and putting new twist into old ideas. I am really excited about this first item – my Personalized Ball Crusher.

 

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Mistress Chianti’s Personalized Ball Crusher  $34.95 (plus shipping)

 

This is an item I am now offering FOR SALE and can be personalized for you. The etching is not a decal, but actually sandblasted and will not rub off or peel.

 

Each crusher is made with delicious pain in mind, and yet at the same time takes into account precautionary measures. Rubber stoppers keep the device from completely collapsing (although they are removable for the more inclined!!) Smooth beveled edges guarantee against any roughness in the design. Simple put, if you enjoy CBT, you are going to love this crusher!

 

These sweet little devices make wonderful and thoughtful gifts for yourself, for your Mistress or an excellent addition to any toybag.

 

Now for my boys that have those raging hard ons for some good CBT, I expect each of you to pick one of these new toys up – these are shipped directly by me, since they are being made right here in beautiful South Carolina!

 

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Here I am using a crusher on a very willing set of balls!


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Tie Up Those Balls!

Posted by Mistress Chianti
In CBT
19Aug 08

Without doubt, one item that is central in the FemDom/malesub active play - is the male sex organ. Those hard cocks, soft cocks, little dicks and bull cocks, those low hanging balls or shriveled up nut sacs – all opens a world of possibilities for fun play, psychological as well as physical and usually both. 

 

There’s an old saying, “When you have him by his balls, his heart and mind will follow.” Well, nothing is more true in an erotic power exchange context

 

There is a widely spread legend that not only the penis erects, but that the male testicles (balls) will become heavier as they “fill” with semen. That is not true, at least not in the literal sense of the word. However, to the man himself it often indeed feels like that. That is a result of the effects of skin stretching. Skin covers all parts of the male genitals. The more this skin is stretched the more sensitive it becomes, as nerve endings are forced closer to the surface; thus the skin is more sensitive on an erect penis than on a flaccid one. The skin of the scrotal sac is thicker and is capable of great stretching and becomes even more sensitive when stretched. That is when the man becomes aware of the weight of his balls, hence they suddenly feel heavier.

 

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The skin covering the head of the cock is very thin, tightly attached to the underlying tissues, and is extremely sensitive. It is important to be aware of the differences in sensitivity between a flaccid and an erect penis. Almost every action during active play – and of course the “things” happening in the mind – will cause the penis to swell and become increasingly sensitive.

 

Hence what may be not painful in the beginning may become very painful (or intense) as play progresses.

 

Hence, when it comes to CBT, the trick is to downgrade your impulses instead of upgrading.

 

The penis will “upgrade” whatever it is you are doing all by itself. The experienced FemDom will be looking for exactly that – let the penis (and the mind) do the work for you.


CBT – Temporary Needle Piercing

Posted by Mistress Chianti

It’s a billboard.
It’s a flagpole.
No – It’s Cock-a-mania!!!!

 

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Although I do not condone the use of safety pins for temporary needle play – it was the thought and effort, which I admired!

 

I love needle play and personally, in my private sessions – I only use medical issued, sterile, one time use needles. This slut already had a mild tongue lashing for his use of a safety pin – but how could I not smile at such a thoughtful gift.

 

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The reality is that many of you are probably thinking “no way in hell”, but let me assure you that if you are under the guidance of an experienced Dominant, the rush of endorphins is worth every minute of your self imposed fear.

 

Now that is not to say, that we as Dominants don’t get our own rush of adrenaline out of a good needle scene, there is a lovely influx of power when you are literally sticking needles through someone’s flesh, and I for one – have my own fetish of not only doing the sticking – but for being STUCK.

 

And yes – I do have some marvelous pictures of myself adorned in needles. I have had as many as over 100 temporary piercings at one time. And if I get enough show of hands (interest) I will be happy to post a picture or two of me, Mistress Chianti, as a pincushion!

 


Clothespin CBT Contest: Winning Picture

Posted by Mistress Chianti
In CBT, Experiences
20Apr 08

A few weeks back, I extended a little challenge to you boyz.

 

Don’t you just love a challenge?

 

Clothes pins, clothes pins, clothes pins.You would be amazed at how many of these little buggers you can get on a penis and a set of testis. One thing to note is that the less skin you capture within the clothespins, the more painful it is going to be. Larger amounts of skin in the clamps will be, in turn, less painful. Also, clothespins hurt much worse coming off than they do going on, and the longer you leave them on, the more severe the pain will be when you take them off.

 

I am challenging all male submissves who thoroughly enjoy (or detest – hehehe) CBT to fill those testi sacs and dicks with clothespins. The more the merrier.

 

Take a picture where every clothespin can be accounted for (include the number attached in your email – cuz I will only count what I can see) — and send it to me for posting on my Clothespin CBT Contest via my website.

 

If you don’t know my website or where to send the entry – write me here – I’ll answer all info seekers. This challenge will close on Monday, April 14, 12 Noon, Eastern Standard TIme !

 

Well, looks like buddyz takes home the winning sore cock & balls!!

 

His tortured member and entry letter follows…

 


Mistress Chianti,

 

Thanks for the opportunity to compete in this challenge. I was able to attach 43 clothes pins and I hope you can see them all in this picture.

 

Yours,

 

Buddy Z.

 


A Mistress and Her Puppy.

Posted by Mistress Chianti

When it comes to BDSM and puppy play, sometimes you just gotta say – “ahhhh!!” Which is what a few of you will murmer when glancing at the cutie below.

 

Over the next few days though – I will be posting some pics of how this adorable puppy, is very much into S&M, and all out of his devotion and commitment to his Mistress – Mistress Chianti.

 

Then I bet a few of you will be murmering – arghhhhhhhhhh!

 

I may need someone to “puppy-sit” for me sometime… any volunteers? LOL

 

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