This helpful information was taken from the Lambda Legal website. It is also published in Spanish.

While this information is directed at cruisers from United States, the information would be helpful in most other countries.If you cruise in parks, bathrooms or other spaces open to public view, trust your instincts, be aware of your surroundings — and know your rights. While organizations like Lambda Legal and other groups are fighting against the ways police target men who have sex with men, having sex where others might see you and take offense can subject you to arrest, publicity and other serious consequences. If you feel unsafe, you should leave.

SAFER CRUISING

Always carry identification in case you get hurt or arrested.
Providing your ID (driver’s license, green card, passport) may decrease your chances of spending time in jail, especially if you don’t have a criminal record. If the police stop you, they may instead give you a summons (which tells you the charge and when to appear in court) and let you go.

Remember cops may be “cruising” too.

Be aware that undercover cops may be “cruising” to arrest you. A cop doesn’t have to tell you he’s a cop, even if you ask. If you’re cruising for sex and an undercover cop hits on you, what you do can still be a crime. Don’t count on proving the cop “entrapped” you (which is difficult). Talk to your lawyer if you think you were set up.

Make sure that anyone you have sex with is over the age of consent.

Having sex with a minor is a serious crime with heavy punishment.

Know the laws around same-sex activity.

It changes with different ages and what ever country you happen to be in.

Understand that many laws could be used against you.

Thanks to a Lambda Legal U.S. Supreme Court win, all laws that banned consensual sex by adults in private, including oral and anal sex, have been struck down. But other laws, like those against sex where you might be seen by others, adultery and prostitution laws, or laws against criminal transmission of HIV - might still be used against you.

Be careful.

Protect yourself and others against the risk of HIV and other diseases. Be aware of your surroundings and the possibility of being beaten or robbed.If you cruise on-line let someone know your plans.Tell them where you’re going, the person you are meeting, and when you expect to be back - or write a note on your computer with this information.

Stay calm. Provide identification but don’t answer any questions without a lawyer.
Anything you say can be used against you. Try to remember the details surrounding the arrest, including:

Anal worship, pussy worship or even a back massage can be an unrewarding, unmemorable experience for ME, when it is clear that the slut is totally self indulgent or won’t leave ME alone about it.

Hell, even orgasms can get old when a slut won’t shut up about it and just wants to keep giving them.

Being in the honor of MY presence, is about MY pleasure, on MY terms.

So you’ve stated - you get off on anal worship or pussy worship or foot worship, but you don’t let it go, do you?  As a matter of fact, you make it so clear that it shows me, Mistress Chianti, you have a one-track mind and you think it’s all about you.

I have sessioned with sluts that were like this with pussy worship.  They could not understand why on earth I would not be over the moon to be with a guy that had a one-track-pussy-mind. The truth is, it was so much about “him” all the time that he made it one sided – his side.  If I were not in the mood to have him go down on me, he’d pout and be in a bad mood. I mean come on, seriously, how selfish is that?

I will also add, the submissive male who has been the most “focused (for his own benefit)” on an act of worship, whether it be foot massages or oral service, is usually not as good as he thinks he is.

Those that submit for my pleasure, even when precise instructions are needed – are worth their weight in gold!!!  

How NOT to write your first or ANY letter to Me~!

“Dear Mistress.

Do me, do me, do this to me, do that to me, do this other thing to me, wear these clothes while you are doing it, force me to do these other things, and by the way I expect some kinky sex acts. Here is a picture of my big hard cock for Your pleasure. 

I’ve only sent it to 6,342 women, so it should make you feel really special that I’m sending it to you too.  I won’t pay you money because pros are so selfish and demanding.   You have to do all this stuff to me just because You like it, and if you don’t, then obviously you are not a Real Dominant!”